Spouse
Dearest Journal,Would like to say something today.About my life.I am 26 this year.Not too young,neither am I too old.A reflection of the past would be just nice to blog about.Then I thought of the topic:spouse.
FAQ:AM I SINGLE?And at this age,it doesn't stop there anymore...it goes on to the next question (the harder one). WHY? *snickers*
Suitors?Yes,I am human,I've got suitors.Steady boyfriend?Nope-never an official one.Weird.Am I a flirt?Don't think so.In fact,quite the opposite.Boring?Yea.Full Stop.That's me.lol!
I have had flings,definitely,crushes-tat's another similar term.By the way,what defines a steady?boyfriend?Fiance?Husband?At what point of time does one stage elevates to another?Is it PURELY ceremonial???(And oh,yea,and also, the 3-letter-word--if ppl still value/respect the custom as much as I do)Is there THE one?Everyone seems to be an expert in passing me their point of view.As-though-they-know.
Reasons why I'm single:
1)Before,never did wanted to go steady with a person (my life is too occupied for things others deemed insignificant)
2)At one stage of time, I wanted to be a nun/social worker
3)No one ever did ask me seriously
Comments (to me) which tickles me whenever I think about it:
1)U'll never find someone if u keep having that short hair (LOL!!just too bad)
2)Stop being so boyish (LOL!!just too bad)
3)You're just too busy,gal....the guy's gotta fit into ur schedule (LOL!!just too bad)
4)Would you like to meet my son? (AAAAAA....)
5)In due time (how long?)
6)You're the perfect wife (hay..can I at least get myself started at stage 1?)
7)I would love to get someone like u as my wife. (but not me?)
I have always had good/excellent guy friends----wherever I go (so far).I make/meet really great guy friends(who tells me weird things like the above!!lol!)...but.full stop.
BoRiNG~~~~ ^-^ LOL!
For me,I think it's just a matter of right time,right place,no? AnD if someone comes along,we'll see.Well,journal, my pact is:if I'm still single by the age of 30, I will have my own family. Shall adopt a kid by then and in a few more years after that,another one. :) And -it-is-possible!
No Worries,Mate!
SIgn off:-
posted by Songie @ 11:06 PM
7 Comments:
My oh my. What a serious yet down to earth post. Life. Period. Full stop :D
Don't worry la, if you want to just avoid people asking "Why?" - just tell them your lesbian! Or, you have a group of girls waiting for you to marry them! :p
Dear Songie,
its a matter of time, I guess. And I never ask you about these things. Sure it would be nice to have someone, but when life has so many things going on for you, having that someone special does not have to be on the top of the list.
That said, I wouldn't deny the wonderful things that can sometimes happen, when you do have someone special.
And, I strongly support your choice to adopt if you're not married by 30. One of my friends is doing it as well.
See you soon!
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I think some ppl are better off with a spouse, while some ppl are better off without one. :)
With or without a spouse, ppl can lead great life. Neither is better than the other -- both could be just as good; just different. :)
If I were a guy, I'd marry her. Hehee. :p She's one great perfect companion. :)
FC-I'm lesbian?lol!Now,you're making me doubt my own sexual orientation?omigod.
BK-Yea,look forward to kids by then!If not,teaching is much better!Play with em and then give them back to their parents!hahah!!
ML-Spouse or no spouse,life goes on..
oh blah di oh blah dah life goes onnnnnn OOHH...lala la la life goes on..
7)I would love to get someone like u as my wife. (but not me?) LOL .. i really dunno how to comment on that..
yea, tell me about it man....
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